Friday, May 18, 2012

Hantaran Kahwin untuk dijual!

Yes dengan bangganya, saya nak bagitau hantaran kahwin semua saya buat sendiri. Mak andam saya nak charge untuk gubahan hantaran RM1000. Hemm fikir2 balik, kalau saya buat sendiri lagi mughahh kot, so tema untuk lelaki, Red, Black and Gold tema perempuan, Purple, White and Silver. Scroll down for the images!
Kalau berminat nak sewa pre-loved hantaran s or beli pre-loved hantaran sebelah lelaki ni call/sms kat 0172960477. Dah tak muat nak simpan kat rumah… Yang perempuan kawan saya dah ambil tapak bulu putih, yang tinggal bunga2 dia… Bunga2 ni semua saya beli kat SSF gurantee high quality..! For resale!


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Monday, May 7, 2012

NIK ERWAN ROSELI PENIPU

Al kisah la si nik erwan roseli ni janji nak jahit baju wedding I, price was agreed masa mula2 jumpa, kain nikah(lelaki dan perempuan), kain bertandang (lelaki &perempuan) meanwhile for bersanding 100% akan si designer kononnya 5 stars ni sediakan. Wedding I bulan 9 and masa I jumpa dia around bulan 3. Deposit yang dipersetujui pun dah dibayar. Camnilah I buat kesimpulan kat bawah senang sikit:
Semua ini I ada bukti sms okay!
25 April 2011- 1st meeting nak bincang harga

26 April 2011- I setuju harga, dia cakap “lets start nk dekat dah wedding u ni”

29 April 2011- 2nd meeting, ambil ukuran badan I and en suami. Terus mintak deposit and I bayar.

30 April 2011- dia mintak increase deposit, I and hubby tak kisah kitaorang terus bank in and cakap tak kisah bayar lebih dulu janji baju kitaorg cantik and dia reply “mesti cantik!”

10 May 2011- 3rd meeting I pegi finalized baju bersanding lelaki dengan harapan dapat tengok kain sample baju pengantin I tapi xde

16 May 2011- 4th meeting I insist nak jugak tengok sample dgn harapan dapatlah tengok sample kain pengantin tapi alasannya “semua design and kertas u semua I dah pas kat pekerja. And suruh I refresh warna design everything semula. Dalam hati I, ko hilangkan kertas atau ko memang tak take note ape aku suruh ko buat haritu dengan baju kawin aku?

18 May 2011- 5th meeting tapi dia tunda (sah tak cari sample lagi)

2 June 2011- I sms nak bagitau tarikh wedding confirm 10 September 2011, dia cakap “ok cun, bila nak jumpa tgk color fabric”

8 June 2011- Katanya sample semua dah ready. Dia mintak deposit lagi sebab my cousin nak buat baju bridesmaid dengan dia (3 pasang)

9 June 2011- I dah pilih sample kain for my baju pengantin tapi dia tak bagi pun sample baju encik suami. And bila I balik dia sms suruh masuk duit deposit lagi. I busy so I tak masuk deposit lagi bertubi2 dia sms suruh bank in. So lewat malam bila I free I pegi la bank in.

16 June 2011- I sms baju pengantin siap awal sebab nak guna photoshoot prewedd on 9th July and he replied ok.

18 June 2011 dia suruh masukkan deposit lagi sebab I ada request manik yang mahal sikit. Dia sms “I dah dapat manic yg u send n yg Nampak mahal tu.. “ dah lain mcm desperate nak duit, I reply kalau u nak pakai duit I masuk je lah …

24 June 2011 I sms tanya baju pengantin I dah siap ke dia ckp “nanti I cek” pelik betul dia designer ke dia sub kat orang? And I sms nak tengok sample kain baju syazwan. Dia reply “ baju u dlm proses harap bersabar ye..nanti rushing buruk kang jadinya… sample baju kita jumpa isnin ok

28 June 2011 Dia sms da beli kain pengantin I and dh hantar and potong sebab I nak siap untuk photoshoot and also kain sample pengantin lelaki dah ready. Dia suruh my cousin dating besok untuk ukur buat baju bridesmaid besok

29 June 2011 6th meetingAs I expected semalam dia cakap sample kain pengantin lelaki dah ready tapi pukul 2 dia sms I Tanya warna ape dah jaket bf u? details I dh kat pekerja i. haih kalau dah ready sample takkan ko Tanya aku sample warna ape lagi. Dalam pukul 6 I sampai rumah dia, as usual dia mintak deposit semua 3 pasang baju bridesmaid (kain sendiri ye) Still kain yang didakwa sudah dipotong tu takde I tgk dengan mata I pun alas an dia dah bagi kat pekerja dia.

30 june 2011 dia sms bertubi2 suruh masuk duit deposit untuk baju bridesmaid. I cakap cousin I busy sebab I dah malas layan. Kain pun sedia sendiri, dia tak mula potong ape2 pun dah mintak deposit gila2, bukan sikit pulak tu deposit nak 50%. And I tanya sempat ke siap baju I, he replied “ tulah I pun tk sure takut diaorg jahit cepat2 nanti buruk jadinya. Bila exactly u shooting pre wedd and baju warna ape and yang mana satu?” hangiin aku dia Tanya haritu kata dah potong siap tetiba dia Tanya camtu?

1 July 2011 Dia sms suruh masukkan deposit baju bridesmaid sebanyak 3 kali. And I just pass my cousin no to him biar dia mintak sendiri. My cousin pun dah panas sebab tak dpt tgk ape2 lagi hasil keja dia.

7 july 2011 We paid full deposit for all baju dengan harapan dia akan start keja

23 july 2011 I mintak nak tgk semua baju since baju nikah and baju bertandang I beli kain sendiri dia Cuma perlu potong and baju bersanding dia cakap dah potong and dia reply “isnin msj I, I check for u”

25 july 2011 I sms again and he reply “ esok malam text I ok”

27 july 2011 I sms lagi and he reply “baju2 bf u hamper siap u punya 40%”

28 july 2011 7th meeting, baju pengantin I memang tak wujud lagi, baju nikah I dia jahit benda lain yang I nak, baju bertandang tak wujud lagi. I sabar je kain baju nikah tu dah lah laki aku beli mahal dekat 1k! tapi sabar je sebab boleh pakai lagi walau bukan design yang aku nak!

29 july 2011 I sms to remind him ada 49 days before wedding and paling lewat I nak ambil hari ke 40! I said my mum nak tgk fitting baju semua. He replied, “ada bad news, baju u belum siap lagi, baju bridesmaid 20-25 august ready, baju u semua 1st fitting 10 august. Sorry I ada baju lain kalau u nak pakai for shoot. In the end I tak pakai baju yg dia nak bagi pinjam sebab memang tak sama size. Dah bayar mahal2 pre wedd photographer end up pakai kemeja dengan skirt putih je. Sakit hati tak ?

7 Aug 2011 I sms Nik rabu jadi fitting semua baju tak? He replied “I sms ptg ni”

9 Aug 2011 Nik besok jadi tak? He replied, “ dalam 11mlm I msg u”

10 Aug 2011 NER sms “ hey u, kita jumpa ahad malam k (14 aug)”

14 Aug 2011 NER sms “hey u, 1st fitting kita 17 aug rabu mlm k 9pm” (dia ingat aku nak kawin takde keja lain ke nak free kan masa ikut timetable dia)

17 Aug 2011 NER sms “hey u, ahad ni free tak? Coz lg skit jew, ahad kew?” so I replied skit lg tu dah masuk manik2? Dia reply “blum”

21 Aug 2011 I sms remind “Nik I dah cuti kawin, jumaat depan I balik sampai wedding I, baju tu dah buat semua? Dia reply “dh,esk I msj maybe untk sanding..”

22 Aug 2011 I sms remind lagi,” Nik I nak pickup baju I rabu ni semua skali, baju bridesmaid lepas raya pun takpe” DIa reply “ok”

23 Aug 2011 NER sms” Bila tarikh and sanding u lg skali…note2 tu ada kt pekerja i..i nak double cek” Dalam hati I panas tak terkata nasib baik bulan puasa takde la nak mengamuk tak tentu pasal…. Asal ko tak telefon pekerja kau Tanya tarikh je???
I reply 16 nikah, 17 sanding, 24 bertandang.
And bulan depan nak kawin I tak Nampak langsung rupa baju2 kahwin i.. except baju nikah I yg dia rosakkan and without any finishing manik. Yang lagi sakit hati dia pegi tuka theme color aku dari off white pink jadi pink mak nyah! steady tak dia??
NER replied “ok mcm ni, esok u pas baju nikah u kt I untuk tambah manik, then semua baju2 u and bf u I akan complete after raya ok? Dlm 6 sept.. and I akan ke kuantan untk pas baju u or gedex kan baju..u ok tak? Tarikh2 lepas raya pekerja2 I bleh focus kat baju u je.. u ok tak?”
Gila tak? Dia nak pos je baju kawin aku? Dah la aku tak tau bentuk rupa baju tu macam mana pun and dia expect bila sampai sah aku pakai baju dia walau macam sampah? Kurang hajar gila la pondan ni! Ada pulak kawan aku cita jumpa dia kat club nyah2 frangi jalan changkat pakai rambut palsu mcm lady gaga. Pegi club kau joli pakai duit aku tapi tak reti siapkan baju aku ke??
But at that moment I was trying to stay calm so I bagi dia chance and I tak balik kuantan lagi sebab dia! I bagi chance dia siapkan baju. I sms” I boleh tambah duit so u beli manic yang cantik and mahal, I taknak u buat manic mcm baju tomok tu Nampak murah” dia reply “ manik2 I guna elok punya, I buat the best for you”

I sms” I pickup baju I seminggu sebelum wedding 9 sept” since dia asyik promote nak pos baju aku kan….
Dia reply”ok”
26 aug sepatutnya dia siapkan dah baju bridesmaid tapi cousin2 I bising xde ape2 so I sms dia “ tolong ye nik I tak larat ulang alik minggu akhir persiapan kahwin..tudung baju2 kawin I pun I beli sendiri nak senangkan u Cuma u tambah beading. Baju nikah tu u dah salah buat tp xpelah”

5 sept 2011 My parents call suruh balik kuantan marah I kenapa dah cuti tak balik2..stress sgt cemana nak balik 16 hb nak kawin dah tapi baju tak Nampak lagi! I sms “ nik any update bila baju boleh fitting?”

6 sept 2011 NER reply “ hey u baju u semua dlm proses, bridesmaid semua siap, nnti I bgtau bila nak jumpa k?

8 sept 2011 “semua siap tinggal baju sanding u. I dtg hantar isnin or selasa ok?” kalau korang la agak2 pecaya ke dia nak hantar baju sampai kuantan? Memang tak lah kan so I stayed in kl…

9 sept 2011 I jumpa NER kat rumah dia, baju nikah I dia tampal beading mcm !@#$% bukan beads tapi dia tampal lace putih murah bentuk daun atas baju banyak2.. boleh tak? Kain aku yang harga 1000 dah Nampak mcm 50ringgit! Rosak! Tudung yg beli harga rm150 dia tampal jugak lace putih bodoh tu! Geramnyaaa! Pastu dia bagi veil yg dia beli siap kat masjid india berharga RM10. Warna merah pulak tu tak kena langsung. Tergamam tak terkata apa2 ok masa tu…. Tak paya h sebut la benda lain aku mintak dia tak buattt!

11 sept 2011 NER sms “ u dtg umah I esok ptg bleh? I tunjuk terus bj sanding n nikah.. I tgk skg rasa tk sempat, boleh” I reply “ mms gambar I nak tgk ape u buat” mms dia obviously dalam gelap tak Nampak ape2 tapi Nampak la rupa baju tangan , kain bawah tak Nampak lagi…

12sept 2011 I sms” my cousin nak pickup baju2 bridesmaid. Please I hope no more delay” NER reply “ I buat semua cepat2 jahit manik semua.. cepat2 I try best ni..maybe kalau lewat skit should be ok,”
1AM I tunggu dekat stesen minyak cheras, dia tunjuk gown sanding buat pertama kali nya.. subahanallah dia guna kain net yang rm4 semeter yang keras buat kain dan colornya cokelat. Bila pulak tema aku cokelat? Aku mintak gown putih cream jadi cokelat! Kawan2 aku yg teman semua terdiam tgk baju kawin. Lagi 4 hari wedding aku, kain je Nampak, bajunya??? Gilaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
Ape yang diaorg boleh cakap baju tu cam badut……………………….

13 sept I sms dia “ bila I dapat tengok baju sanding tunang I?” dia tak reply

14 sept finalize baju nikah I, memang disaster, leaving his house I sms “ nik I don’t like my baju nikah, Nampak murah, please jangan rosakkan baju sanding I” baju sanding I dengan syazwan tak Nampak lagi….dia suruh husband I pick up malam
2.30pmdia sms I nak pos baju sanding I, dia insist. Husband I dr Sarawak nak turun kuantan terpaksa lepak shah alam semata mata tunggu dia.
Dia insist I ambil baju lama dia untuk ganti baju syazwan. I cakap “ before this u bg I baju tomok I forgive u because I want the best for my wedding. Sekarang ni lusa nak kawin u paksa I pakai baju yg u nak bagi pinjam and I tak penah tengok? Kalau tak siap u jangan sampai tuning I mengamuk”
“I dating jumaat hantar baju u kat kuantan” gila? Aku nikah hari jumaat, sabtu sanding ko ingat aku ade masa nak layan kau dengan baju yg aku tak penah tgk?

Sept 15 ( a day before my wedding) my husband sampai kuantan and showed me the dress.. semua diam, silence ok, adik I bunyi…macam baju Mexican. Gilaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!! Cemana aku nak pakai baju mexico on my wedding??????????????????????????????????????
At last I sewa baju for the price RM4000. Paham2 la kedai kahwin bila tau kita desperate harini SEWA besok nak guna dia cekik darah kita la.. memang takkan la aku pakai NER punya baju yang macam *BBBB* tapi baju nikah terpaksa pakai jugak ..sebab saying husband belikan kain mahal2 untuk nikah.

16 sept (on my nikah day) masa tengah mekap dengan mata berair-air I sms NER “ nik buruknya baju u buat untuk kitaorg, its not even the material or design yang I pilih, uve ruined my wedding day!” tuhan je la yang tahu betapa frustnya kita tak dapat pakai baju yang kita nak….
NER reply” I akan bayar balik semua duit kain u k semua k I bayar balik, bukan I sengaja I sehabis baik akan buat the best for my customer” dalam hati aku customer my foot! Kalau artis, anak orang kaya drive Mercedes gi rumah kau, kau buat lah! Yang aku ni ko hisap duit macam lintah pegi enjoy! And duit kau bayar tu pun bukan boleh ganti wedding aku sekali lagi. Ingat aku artis ke nak kawin banyak2 kali??
Ergh kalau dia memang taleh deliver sepatutnya dia ada courtesy bagitau I awal at least I could’ve made a back up plan! Sangat selfish! Dia ingat ape aku akan pakai je baju buruk yang dia bagi? Harapan lah!
Boleh buat novel untuk nyah ni. Kesimpulannya ni…
Baju bersanding perempuan- Bukan seperti yang I design, macam pocong.
Baju bersanding lelaki- Dia beli siap baju taichi kelabu, bukan material yang I pilih haritu, langsung bukan design I nak
Baju nikah lelak – baju melayu, rosak kain sebab dia buat saiz kecik singkat, kesian husband tak boleh duduk pun
Baju nikah perempuan- rosak kain lace mahal akuuuuu!!! Lari warna, x matching, dia tampal lace murah sebab takde masa jahit manik
Baju bertandang perempuan- manik sehari sebelum bertandang kat kelantan I jahit sendiri tak tidur sebab dia buat macam sampah. Tudung dia beli dekat masjid india..bukan tudung, selendang kuning yang sehelai RM5. Kejam tak?
Baju bertandang lelaki - baju melayu, rosak kain sebab dia buat saiz kecik singkat, kesian husband tak boleh duduk pun

Baju bridesmaid 1- kesian mintak dress dia bagi baju kurung modern, tanpa manik2 langsung, kerja tak siap
Baju bridesmaid 2- ketat tak boleh duduk, jarang, janji nak letak lining tapi tak letak. Ada manik sebab cousin I yang dating ni bawak Mercedes bila jumpa dia. Manic dia lagi grand dari baju2 kahwin i. sial tak?
Baju bridesmaid 3- mintak design lain keluar design lain, without manic, kerja tak siap

Dia janji nak baya balik tapi setakat April 2012 ni dia baru baya rm400. Itupun cam nak mati mintak.. korang rasa ape patut aku buat dengan dia? Bukan banyak aku tuntut dari dia tak termasuk kain2 yang dia rosakkan!!!!!!!!
Sekarang call haram lah memang dia takkan angkat telefon. Yang best nya rupa-rupanya banyak yang dah kena dengan nyah ni. Tak sanggup nak dengar dah.

Last week I sms dia, telling Nik, kau memang melampau, I was thinking of reporting him to higher authority, tetiba dia cakap dia nak masukkan RM1000 and repay the balance. I cakap kau buat dulu then baru bagitau... and the next dia masukkan duit tu. Pelik. The following week, dia text I yang dia akan masukkan RM500. Lagi pelik, after dia masuk dia sms, mintak tolong remove comment. I just replied "ok" Tapi comment mana aku pun tak tau lah....... And balance dia banyak lagiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii! Shit lah..

Whatever it is duit yang dia bayar tu takkan dapat kembalikan majlis kahwin yang I impikan. Dia tak faham effect yang dia buat biarpun dia sponsor satu wedding I. Kalau orang tak sengaja memang I senang lupakan kesalahan. Tapi kalau dah obviously sengaja, aku maafkan tapi takkan lupa!! Kau tahu tak sebab kau aku tak boleh nak hadap gambar kahwin aku tau!!!!!!!! sampai sekarang aku tak kutip wedding album aku sebab sakit hatiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii tak sanggup nak tengok gambar!

Kepada bakal2 pengantin, tak payah la korang buang masa dengan ni. Dia ni pandai buat muka kesian sebab tu I tak penah marah dia, sampai la hari I nikah, darah dah naik sampai kepala, kalau dia ada depan muka memang aku pelangkung dengan kasut kawin aku masa tuuuu! Sekian harap kes ini dijadikan pengajaran

Sunday, May 6, 2012

Drilling


Apekah? Yes, Im talking about drilling the wall, tiles untuk gantung2 frame gambar, langsir etc. Why this topic? Sebab today I learn something new and I think I should share it with you guys yang suka DIY home deco. Kalau upah orang drill memang mahal, can be up to RM60-RM90. Padahal boleh buat sendiri je.. Drill ni ada banyak jenis yang famous Bosch, but the one I use is Makita which is fairly cheaper lah, yelah bukan nak pegi bukak bisnes drilling pun as personal use je, and Ive realize mata drill memainkan peranan penting. Mata drill tu ada yang twist (kayu,besi), masonary (batu-bata), and also for glass (Which also can be use for tiles). Patutla dulu masa drill nak gantung frame gambar, sampai bengkok2 mata drill tu, rupanya mata tu untuk kayu he he..

Mata drill ni boleh cari kat hardware, DIY pun ada, price sebiji dalam RM2-RM5. Kalau mata drill kaca/tiles, mahal sikit RM7.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

Langsir di Nilai 3


As usually, on a boring Saturday me and my hubby drove to Nilai 3 semata-mata cari langsir rumah, memang banyak pilhan tak terkata and price di KL kalau compare memang worth the travel but since for me staying in Putrajaya is not far away from my home so it takes about 25 minutes drive. Lalu highway Plus nak pegi seremban tu ambil exit Nilai or Kolej Universiti Islam, the toll is about RM2.50 je pun..

There’s a few quality standard of curtain that you can find over there, langsir yang berkualiti memang mahal sikit tapi compare dengan KL, memang lagi murah. And jahit langsir siap dalam 2 jam (ada setengah kedai boleh jahit dalam 1 jam) The best thing, jangan lupa bargain! My curtain, mula2 RM18 per metre, lepas tu dia bagi kurang RM15.. last2 dapatlah RM13 per metre.

Besides that, kat Nilai 3 ni ada kilang carpet, but actually carpet yang dikilang tu bukan Persian or Shanggy carpet tapi carpet yang custom made biasa pasang kat office or house. But still, Belgium, Persian, etc carpet are sold here and harga memang jauh beza. But remember always tawar harga! At the end, I bought a Persian carpet priced almost RM400 for my living area and RM187 for my hallway. Why Persian? Sebab tahan lama-up to 8 years, senang vacuum, selesa baring, classy, and tak penah out of date dari zaman nenek moyang kita. Kalau kat KL and other places, for the one that I bought could be up to RM1000, like seriously sebab my mum, aunty I memang suka Persian carpet.

Beside those 2 things, kat Nilai 3 ni memang banyak barang kahwin macam doorgift, hantaran stuffs etc. Kalau kain tu I prefer to shop at Masjid India as there’s better choices over there.

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Second Trimester of Pregnancy


Im in the 13th week today… where alhamdullillah I have passed my first 3 months of pregnancy but still tak lalu makan nasi. Yesterday I did my check up at Klinik Kesihatan Putrajaya. Boleh tahan jugak la lamanya, dari pukul 7.30 sampai 12.30 baru settle. Now I know why people prefer to go to private clinic and hospital :p Surprisingly, by 12pm Klinik tu kosong! I think I should come during lunch hour takde lah ramai sangat orang macam dating pagi kan!

Result? Low blood pressure, weight loss, kurang darah merah. So I was given supplements and I have to return to that clinic for every 2 weeks untuk ambil darah. Ho ho memang horror. Despite the long waiting time as it involves a couple of steps and procedures, Id give 6 stars for their service. They actually make time for each of their patient to listen and advice.

My first meeting with a private clinic doctor, when I was 6 weeks, nothing much he was just confirming that Im pregnant and I shouldn’t worry much about taking vitamins and he charged me at RM30. It didn’t help much so I waited another 4 weeks and went for a scan at KPJ with a Gynae Specialist and yeah the doctor was very warm and friendly, advised me not to eat too much of vege’s during the first 3 month as our stomach will become gassy (that explains the nausea) and ask me to consume more calcium by milk or ice cream(if you don’t like milk) and carbohydrates. And the charges was about RM200 for that session +_+

So, after experiencing a few places Ive decided to do my monthly follow up with Klinik Kesihatan since its way much cheaper and their service is fairly good to me. Conceiving? I haven’t decided yet whether to go to hospital kerajaan or private. Obviously, the cost is a major role in this decision making. Will do a couple of survey and post it here later!

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Pet? Aquarium for newbies!


Guess what! I got an aquarium for my husband, since he mentioned a couple of time already, bought it Sunway Pyramid at the price of RM215-after discounted price 10%, fishes, pumps, accessories included. The tank is kinda small so Ive decided to place the aquarium next to our bed, replacing our bed lamp. Yelah kalau tank besar sikit boleh la letak kat living area, ni kecik sangat, jadi lampu tidur pun ok lah hehe. Best part, my husband was so happy and excited to see the aquarium when he got back from work. Aaaw.. glad he liked em!

Its not that hard to maintain a tank of fish comparing having a cat, sugar glider, birds, I fed my fishes once every two days and I will have to change the water tank once a month. Not bad eh? Ive always been an animal lover, use to have pets but yelah since I moved to my new apartment which doesn’t have any balcony, I decided not to have any pets, Kesian lah pulak nanti diaorg terkurung dalam rumah. Later on I realized I rasa sunyi sangat….. and tada! Here’s my new favourite pet.. tapi of course lah tak boleh expect diaorg ni responsive or cuddly like a cat, sugar glider or rabbit :P

Monday, April 30, 2012

Catching Up With My Uni Besties



Previously, we have planned a few times to meet up but in last minute ade je yang cancel, on that particular Monday, coincidently Sharul and Eryn was on leave and Hazwan was also on “MC” hehe so I decided to join them for a quick lunch since I have work in the office. Surprisingly, from our last meeting which has been more than a year we still manage to have fun lepaking together. Here’s some pictures of us from the last meeting.. I wasn’t even engage yet on this time.



Unexpectdly, they are those friends that you wouldn’t expect that you’ll be keeping in touch after your studies! We shared our problems, giving advice, being modest and honest in friendship – I’d say we’ll last forever. Too bad the other 2 girls Syeera and Sha couldn’t make it on that day or perhaps it’ll be much messier than a normal lunch! Im looking forward in having a potluck for my house coming party to invite them but couldn’t make my mind yet on which date…!